HATE - A feeling as STRONG as Love

Wow, i like the subject line. i can say the subject line was one of my masterpieces. :-)
But on a serious note, i have thought about this for a long long time.we find so many books and literature on Love, but we underestimate its counterpart, HATE. i personally believe the feeling of hating sumbody is as strong as love. There are so many similarities in both the feelings. when we do either of the one we have that person invoved i our life and we allow that person to interfere in our personal space.Space that we keep for ourselves.the person os constanly in our mind. And for people like me, we constantly have them in our conversations. Unlike many i dont keep my hatred secret. I am among the few fools in the world who just cant keep this feeling as a secret. both love and hate is easily seen.Its difficult to hide both.
The feeling is so strong like love that at times we forget to use our brains. Like love even hatred comes stright from the heart.It has the capapbility to change our moods. It has the capability for people to do what they woildnt have normally.Most of us would take hate to be a negative feeling. Though it is but its strength cannot be underestimated. I may be seen as a cynic for praising this feeling so much but one of the statistical survey ( sources undefined ) say that we dislike 95 % of the people we meet.Now thats a figure. I was amazed and so relieved when i got to know this. Coz there are times when i see the so called practical people around me who keep sayin, i like all, all are good, i dont dislike anyone. There is one thing that i know about such people. They are very good in hiding emotions. or maybe just too afriad to admit it.
I thout for a few days, coz of such people ofcourse, that maybe there is some problem with me and so i dont like so many people. But i was wrong.Its common, Just that i show it and others hide.That reminds me, the feeling of HATE , like love, is also mutual from both sides. I have hardly seen one person hating the other but the other not doing that in return. Gandhiji was the last known person to do that but i dont feel dat to be true. He might have hated the british rulers, And dint he do that in hatred when he was thrown out of the train in south africa. Hate halps u achieve alot. Hitler hated jews and that made him one of the most powerful persons of the century. So its not only Love that helps u succeed, its even hate. we have two extremely oppsite examples of such people and theri feeling of hate in Gandhi and Hitler.
May be people would say the words dislike and hate are different from each other. They say i dislike that person but i dont hate him. Now i don understand how? Well the breed of so called practical people are also often haerd saying that i neither like that person nor do i dislike. Now thats as good as sayin, m neither alive nor m i dead. Anyways thats the majority in todays world, people who neither like nor dislike.Not for me but, if i dont dislike or hate i say i like that person and same holds true viceversa.
Too much written for hate. that too when i was in no mood to hate anybody. But the message to be conveyed is, Common guys its normal to hate, admit it. and dont underestimate hate. One day m gonna be a big person in life, thanksto many such people whom i hate. they help me as mmuch as the people i love help. So thanks to all thos epeoplewhom i hate. And no wonder i am in a better position then many people coz i have 2 kinds of people who support me, People whom i love and people whom i hate, whereas the others only have the love kinds.. Cheers to HATRED

Every coin has 2 sides

There are times i wonder, whether this sayin 'every coin has 2 sides' is an understatement.its such a mildly put statement to one of the biggest facts of life.Coz like coins i feel every human also has 2 sides. a good side and a bad side.it all depends on what side are u actually looking at or what side of his is he trying to show.We cant be good to all in this world.Its as simple as that.
It was so difficult for me to accept some silly facts.I kept wondering how can sumone like this guy\girl ?? I totaly hate that person. I cant stand his [ il be using male pronouns but it stands for both genders ;-) ] face but there are others who like him.How can u even tolerate him forget liking him, is what i keep askin myself and at times to the person also if he is my good fren. They can point out his good qualities.Ok agreed there are a very fre good qualities in him but still yaar...And thats when i realize like every coin having 2 sides, even every human has. So its not my fault that i hate him.I jus happen to see his bad side or may be he is showing me his bad side. May be he is good to only a selected few and m not a part of that elite list. May be others just have the quality to pick out good in everybody. I am amazed at such people. How can u not hate anybody??? Its not that they dont hate, its jus that they dont show.A nice quality. I wana get this one but i fail miserably.
And then there are certain things which others can take and i cant. I hate people braging while some others can just tolerate it. I try so many times to look at the person with a positive outlook but the negative energy coming out of him betas me and i totalyy hate them.Myfault is to show them that somethings wrong. One big quality that i should posses is diplomacy and patience. It seems the world teaches dis to all. No, dats wrong, this world dint teach this to me. I havent learned it yet. No matter how hard i try and then i feel like a fool.
Why is it so hard to digest such things. There are so many who would hate me and i dont hate myself at all ( well at times i do).Well there are a few other people also excluding me who like me. With me as an example itself i can say that its such a common phenomenon. Still one of the mysteries. There might be sumthing which makes me hate him or love him.Why is that i expect most of them to think like me. I shouldnt be doing that.
I have to learn a few things very fast now.1) keep it to urself if u hate somebody. Reveal it to only very very few people who are ur very good frens.2) be diplomatic. dont be straight on the face. 3)Accept the fact that men are dogs.We are a bloody fraternity who behaves differntly wiith the opposite sex. 4) dont think and analyze so much. Let some people jus t go to hell.
Wow ..the 4th learning should be practiced very fast. That would make me happy soon. More human pshycology bullshit and my silly thougts to follow. Enjoy

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Hi All,

A new blogger on the block. well i was never into all this but was being told by a friend to start something like this. It was said with a reason. these are the days when i am miles away from my home, for the first time indeed and staying alone ( not to mention i even cook myself these days) so i am getting to learn a few things. Now few was definately an understatement. I believe i Am In the steepest learning phase of my life. Get to learn something new each day. I was alot into human pshycology and stuff but geting out and being alone among people you dont know was somethinf different. No wonder how much u study our teachers always said' kids, practicals are important'. Now i know the reason why.

I don know whether any crap i write may be of interest to anybody here or even me. But then m giving it a try. U never know my blogs might start geting the max number of hits in a few months. Optimistic na or even confident. Well confidence and the ability to speak good and nice are the only 2 things i think i have. all other qualities are crap. Typical scorpion qualities. Scorpions are known to teach the world to think with their minds but we never do the same.We think, act and behave with our hearts. No need to mention it pains but dats how scorpions are.

That reminds me i should be writing on some topic na?? well il hv to read a few blogs first to know how it actually works.